I find it amazing how many people sit in the seats, watch the fight and then determine what he should have done differently. How do you know how you would react in that situation? Truly? As our friend Ed says, “95% of those people watching would never consider stepping into the ring in the first place.” I most appreciate those guys at the fight who could look my kid in the eye afterwards and say to him, “I’ve been there kid.” and then pat him on the back and tell him how proud they are of him.

A few notes to those there. To Mike, Bob, Ed, Chris, of course my husband Derek, those of you who have been in that same ring–thank you for saying all of the things to him that only you are truly qualified to say.

To my daughter, who would do anything in her power to help her brother and support him, thank you for always being in his corner. You make me proud every moment of your life but moreso when you’re loyal to your brother than at any other time.

And to the 86+ friends and supporters who came to cheer on our kid and to show you support him–thank you–especially his cousin and best friend Damen–love the way you are there for each other and hope it lasts you both a lifetime.

To my son–nobody brings it like you do kid, nobody trains any harder or wants it more–follow your passion and we’ll figure all the rest of it out–you know what I mean here. You have my unending support, I admire you every second that you’re in that ring giving it your all (as excruciating as I find it to watch), and I believe in you. You show a commitment to this sport that few teenagers show in anything. I hope that you bring your same dedication and drive to succeed in the ring to everything else in your adult life–your future family and career. I love you and the man you’re becoming.